Showing posts with label babygirl. Show all posts
Showing posts with label babygirl. Show all posts

Wednesday, 30 April 2014

Emily has a better social life than mummy!


Back at the beginning of the year our portage worker mentioned a special needs mother and baby group called TreeTops, as all this was new to me I had never heard of it but thought we would pop in and give it a go as up until this point we were attending mainstream groups and it was becoming clear how different Emily was to other babies her age and although other mummies and carers didn't say anything outright you would catch them staring and you knew they were thinking 'why is she just laying there and not rolling, sitting ect'. Also I don't pity Emily and don't want anyone else doing the same as she is such a happy little girl (I would go as far as saying happier than 95% of all babies) and is continuing to improve daily.

We went along for the first time and I can honestly say I have never looked back. We both loved it. It's very laid back and the workers are all lovely beyond words and you come away feeling refreshed and positive. Mummies have coffee and the babies play on the mats and the bigger ones explore and play. They also have a lovely Sensory room which Emily loves (mummy does too).  The premises is a respite care home being divided into two sections almost. One side is overnight respite for kids that have very complex health needs and the other section is for delayed learning children. Again I never knew anything like this existed and although at the moment I can't imagine ever sending Emily for a night of respite I can understand why some parents choose to do this.

At one of our coffee mornings we were lucky enough to meet Charlie Porter who is the founder of a children's charity called Muffins Dream Foundation. Charlie has had more than her share of health issues from birth and bravely overcome these and you may say made her into the person she is today. 

Muffins Dream Foundation was set up to help disabled 0-25 year olds in Basingstoke and Hampshire not to mention the siblings and other family members. They offer a wide range of services from activity days, hospital visits, providing boredom buster bags for any of the children or young adults that maybe in hospital for any length of time and baby sitting to name a few. 

To date we have attended a messy play afternoon, Easter egg hunt and also the most recent being a gymnastics morning which was such a hit for Emily's big sister. One of the great things about Muffins Dream Foundation is that they include siblings which having a older daughter I think it's so important that siblings are not left out. This has always been a worry for me and my husband but so far I think we are doing a good job! 




Muffins Dream Foundation also have a number of other volunteers who help in any way they can and again they do a brilliant job and you can see that each and every one of them are as dedicated as the next. 

Each child that is registered with them is then referred to as one of the Muffins which again is a nice touch! 

It is Charlie's dream to eventually open Muffin House Hospital which is a luxury hospital who will provide care for children and young adults that have to spend a great deal of time in hospital, they would provide a high level of medical care and also a few extras that would make the individuals stay that bit more comfortable. 

Muffins Dream Foundation are always looking to recruit new Muffins and there siblings. Please look at there website which provides more details of services they offer, a registration form if you would like to enrol your own littke muffin and also please read the page about Charlie herself. I have only read it this evening and all I can say is WOW! If anyone can give you confidence that others are not always right it's Charlie. She has overcome so so much to be where she is today, against all odds and is a true inspiration.

As mentioned earlier we have attended a messy play afternoon which both Emily and her older sister loved. Emily relaxed in the sensory corner while her sister done all manor of messy things I would never let her do at home. Well not my home anyway haha. Emily even joined her sister in some shaving foam fun. 



We then attended the Easter Egg event which again was a brilliant day . This event was open to the public and it was a great turnout with almost eighty children in attendance. Obviously Emily couldn't take part in the actual hunt but her sister done her proud. Emily was more interested in the two Muffin Mascots. These being Fireman Sam and a Minion. Every child was given an Easter egg or in Emily's case a little chick to take home along with biscuits they has iced and eggs they had painted. 






The last even we attended was the gymnastics event. Again there was a high demand for this and by attending I can certainly see why. Emily was lucky enough to have a baby coach almost to herself. It was a lovely coincidence as the baby coach also tought my older daughter when she used to do gymnastics a couple of years ago so it was nice to have a chat ect.
Emily was able to try a number of new things such as sitting and being turned in an almost shell kind of seat (I am sure they have a proper name), being gently rocked in a blanket , tummy time on a wavy mat which she really liked (she hates tummy time), sliding down the slide on blankets and also managed to fit in some time on the giant trampoline. Emily didn't manage an hour and half but spent the last half an hour watching her sister jump into the foam pit and do all manor of daredevil stuff. It was lovely to just stand back and watch all of the children, all different disibilities having great fun. Roll on next month when the next gymnastics event is being held! 








You can read more about Muffins Dream Foundation on there website

Www.muffinsdreamfoundation.co.uk

Also they have a Facebook page which I am sure you are more welcome to join

Www.facebook.com/muffinsdreamfoundation 

Also as with all charities they rely on donations so they can carry on and in this case provide such a worthwhile and excellant service. If you want to donate to such a worthy cause you can do so by donating on the website or contacting Charlie via email or directly on the Facebook page.

Also if you have not yet joined my Facebook page please do so

Www.facebook.com/introtoemily




Saturday, 19 April 2014

Half term with Emily

As half term is almost over i thought i would post a few pics that have been taken of Emily during the two weeks break!

Spare of the moment trip with the family to the local petting farm. A good time had by all!

To add to Emily's list of firsts, she tried ice cream. To say she liked it was an understatement. She went as far as taking it out her nannys hand when she was offered a little lick. She wasn't too happy when it was taken away but in true Emily style her nanny was quickly foregiven.

Emily has more or less grown out of both her baby bouncers and I wasn't really sure what to do. Not only does she love sitting and chilling in them they are also used to feed her as she can't be sat up too much or else nothing stays in her mouth . After doing some research and asking some special needs mummies it was down to this bouncer and the proper special needs bouncer. Unfortunately the special needs bouncer comes with the normal special needs price tag and although I could stretch to one I would really need two as we are at Emily's nannys a lot as well as at home. Fortunately for us one of our friends had two which she didn't need anymore, Problem solved !
Emily really loves her new bouncer and has even taken one or two naps in there. She does fall to the side after five minutes but she still looks comfortable and it does not bother her.  She is also sat up more which she really enjoys. I really reccomend this bouncer, and on a plus side she should fit in it until around 4 years of age .

Emily has almost nearly grown out of her newborn car seat, not to mention my poor back! Again I researched and asked various people about what seat I should go with. After narrowing it down to two we went to halfords and tried her in the Maxi Cosi Axiss. She looked really supported and she seemed to like sitting in it. After going away and thinking about it we decided to purchase it. Emily loved the seat but upon actually using it we noticed that her head isn't as supported as we would like. I am the process of looking at what's available to buy to help in supporting her head. It would be fine if she didn't move but as she is a nosy baby she likes to look around and this is when her head starts to flop. A fried has suggested putting some toys over the door on the hanger to try and keep her from moving about. This is a great idea and something I will be putting into action in the next couple of days.
Also the added bonus in this is that the car seat swivels which is ideal as Emily needs a fair bit if support while being lifted in and out of the car and tends to fall forward when strapping her in. 

Up until now I have been using a finger toothbrush for Emily but as she is now on more solids I decided to get her some baby toothpaste and baby brush to try. She wasn't too sure at first and pulled some brilliant faces but once she got used to it she loved it and was smiling and babbling away.

A Emily day would not be complete with cuddles from just about anyone! And when I say cuddles I mean lots.







We were lucky enough to be invited to two Easter egg hunts this year. The first being held by Bluebells (i will do a post dedicated to this once we have been and spent a day there which is happening in may) and the second being held by The Muffins Dream Foundation. We had a brilliant time at both and was enjoyed by both Emily and we big sister Mairead.

http://www.muffinsdreamfoundation.co.uk
http://www.sebastiansactiontrust.org/holidays/the_holiday_house.php

All in all it's been a busy two weeks but very enjoyable.